You are Mine

On May 18, 2025, I officiated Liat and Trey’s wedding ceremony at The Windsor at Hebron Park in Carrollton, Texas. Here are the remarks I shared with them and their guests:

Fun fact: The only person speaking the truth when they call Liat by her name is Trey. Li means mine, and at means you. Liat, therefore, means you are mine. 

When I think of that fact and of Liat and Trey’s relationship, a concept I never before had the words for comes to mind: Innocent excitement. 

What is innocent excitement? It describes a feeling of joyful anticipation or thrill that is pure, unburdened, and free from any ulterior motives or negative connotations.

It combines the purity associated with having no guilt, wrongdoing, or bad intentions, with the feeling of intense energy, anticipation, and enthusiasm.

This is well evident in how Liat and Trey speak of each other, their history together, and their relationship.  

Liat says, “There are several reasons why I want to marry Trey. First and foremost, Trey knows how to make me smile, he knows how to make me laugh so hard that my stomach hurts. Trey also knows how to make me feel safe. Trey has shown me that he loves me for me and doesn’t take me for granted. He has never judged me. He has always been there for me and has always loved me. I love you Trey with all of my heart. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.”

And Trey says, “There are several reasons why I would like to marry Liat.  First and foremost is her kind heart and devotedness toward me through thick and thin. She cares for and loves my whole family. She has never judged me for who I am.  She has guided me to be a better person…  Liat and I had a special bond.  Through all the turmoil I have gone through… she was and has always been there for me… I love you Liat with all my heart. I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with you.”

Liat and Trey, what we wish for you is that your innocent excitement continue to manifest itself throughout your marriage. Through that, your bond will be unbreakable.