This couple, actually, teaches us two important lessons, and they are of the unconscious variety, and boy are they deep!
First Alexis’ lesson for us. Here is what she says about
“I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I want to start a family with
him, I want to grow old with him. He brings so much color to my life, color I
had no idea I was missing. The sun shines brighter when we’re together, food
tastes better when we’re together. Everything is better when we’re together.” Logan
Now, the romantics among you are going, “Awwwwwww!” The rationalists among you, conscious of the fact that usually your verbal insights are not appreciated at events like these, perhaps winced a bit. “Food tastes better when we’re together?” Really?!
Well, I am no scientist, and I don’t even play one on TV. However, I believe this is quite rational. We think that taste is something in the tongue. It is not. It is in the brain. The entire food restaurant industry makes that quite clear.
’s lesson for us. Here is what he says
about Alexis: “She has helped make me a better person every day we have been
together. I am so lucky to have met such an unbelievable caring, kind, and
loving person. I want to spend the rest of my life with her to grow together,
to experience life together, travel the word together, and raise a family
Now, you are probably thinking to yourself, “Oh boy, he’s a rabbi, and he can’t read. How sad.” Because, surely, I should have read, “travel the world together.” Here’s the thing, I am not misreading.
accidentally typed “word” instead of “world.” Logan
However, through this he teaches us an incredible lesson. You see, there can be two ways to approach our differences in the realm of faith. And, you will see examples of this among interfaith couples, among friends who are members of different faiths, and even among faith communities. One way is not to really talk about faith. Let’s just play it safe. We don’t want to argue or disagree, so let’s talk about anything else.
Well, that may be safe, but it’s really boring, and it is not conducive to learning. Guess what, if you think your tradition has a monopoly on the truth, and that you have nothing to learn from other faiths, you are wrong. So, the smarter move is to, in
’s words, “travel
the word together.” Learn about the other person’s faith, learn about their
traditions. You will become richer for it, we all will become richer for it,
just like Alexis and Logan. Logan