I hadn't officiated a wedding at the Dallas World Aquarium
for about 25 hours, so I returned last night to officiate Jessica and Ramin's
wedding. In my personal remarks, I always talk about what I learned from the
couple, and that is where I began this time too.
I think it is actually in this very area of the importance of learning in the
here and now and from each other, that Jessica and Ramin teach us an important
lesson.
Jessica and Ramin come from two of the most ancient cultures in the world.
Persian and Jewish history goes so far back that it makes the German town that
Jessica's current last name invokes look downright new, being founded in 766.
There is great pride in coming from such ancient cultures. However, there is a
hazard there too. It is very tempting for members of such rich cultures to sit
back on their laurels, and believe that the past is all that matters, and that
new knowledge and learning is not only unnecessary, but to be discouraged.
Jessica and Ramin are fine examples of taking the opposite approach. They have
each thought deeply about their respective heritages, embraced what was
meaningful to them, and continued to learn. They have each strived and continue
to strive to know and discover more about the world and about themselves.
Most importantly, they have not just seen each other as lovers, but as fellow
learners too. Perhaps one of the only things they might passionately disagree
on in this area is who benefitted more from whom. Jessica will tell you that
she learned so much more from Ramin, and Ramin will tell you how much more he
learned from Jessica. They each will tell you how much more the other inspires
them to better themselves each and every day.
Jessica and Ramin, continue on this path of passion for learning, and continue
to inspire each other. Through may you find not just 11 years of happiness you
have had do far, but seven fold more years to come.
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